Thursday, February 10, 2011

I am allowed...



I have a right to feel, and to express myself. I have a right to have my needs met!
... I just got so cought up in the thought of having my needs met that I forgot what I was going to blog about... I guess I had never really thought about what it would be like if I had my needs met instead of always trying to meet other peoples needs, even when they don't ask me to do so. It's called codependence. It's not going to be my problem much longer. I am also going to be better at making decisions and sticking to my decision. I have rights, and I am exercising my rights to exist!

Thank God for Country music! especially Carrie Underwood, Brad Paisley and Keith Urban. There are so many good, uplifting country songs. Songs that help me think about other things, and be excited for the future. If I could do anything I wanted to right now, I would go to the USA and become a country singer.

I am ready to feel healthy and happy, I am ready to let my anger and frustration go, move on, and be happy. I want to fall in love.... that shouldn't be too difficult should it?

7 comments:

Unifer said...

I just remembered what I was going to blog about.... I have the right to be momentarily crazy. I deserve to act out on my crazy feelings after all I have been through lately. Also, if I talked to Old me (myself some years into the future) she would probably tell me I am not doing so bad and things will get better!
The End

Ashley Bybee Stepp said...

I would totally buy your CD. I think you should do it! Miss you!

lmt said...

You have it all figured out. I especially like that love is not difficult, yes, its shouldn't be. And I loved that you want to be a country singer. Come for a visit and we'll see if we can't make that happen.. :-) ps. You are a wise one, you are.

MiriamR said...

Dear Unnur,
I don't like country music but I would definitely buy your cd! yeah you have the right to be crazy. I use that right at least 3 times a week and usually a big ole crazy once a month!!

Kimberly Gochnour said...

Uni I think you should blog more a lot more! I love hearing your voice when you are so far away! Love you long time!

Jo and Giuls said...

Nice blog :)
We also love country music and Taylor Swift! *w*
It will be a pleasure if you'll visit our blog.
Kisses
Jo and Giuls

Unifer said...

I am so thankful for all of your comments! they make me smile :D you guys make me smile!!